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Do you need a Coach?

  • Posted on January 31, 2011 at 10:32 pm

In the old days, coaches were only for people who played sports. Nowadays, there are coaches for everything from physical fitness to life and even business coaches. They are people who have figured it out and want to share the knowledge they have found. What’s wrong with that? It means that the student doesn’t have to start at the beginning figuring out how to make the wheel, right?

I have worked with one coach for the last two years and she has really been phenomenal. Tuck Self, The Rebel Belle, is a self-empowerment coach. Her specialty is helping women to live all out and on their terms. She promotes herself as a self-empowerment coach, but she has been an exquisite business coach for myself.

When you are looking for someone who can coach you, you first need to understand what you are wanting to be coached on. I was lucky when Tuck was placed in my life. She has helped me to figure out exactly who I am, through the famous Human Design System, as well as where my strengths lie. Her coaching and friendship have increased the value that I have been able to provide to my customers – and I didn’t have to start from scratch! I did have to realize that I am capable of anything that I thought I could do.

Sometimes, that is one of the toughest and yet easiest questions you can ask yourself – What is it that I am passionate about doing? It has been noted for years that if you are doing something that you are passionate about, you are going to have a better chance of being successful than if you were just going to work to draw a paycheck.

Did you know that 70% of our population goes to work to merely draw a check? They are not passionate about what they do and that means they are not successful.

We don’t want to be like that. Do what you are passionate about, what you believe in! If you need a coach to help you figure that out, then go for it. Life is too short for us to merely survive! We are here to be successful, whether that is outside of us or within.

How to Make Any Project Procrastination-Proof

  • Posted on January 21, 2011 at 4:44 pm

While procrastination is a many-headed thing, it doesn’t mean that you can’t keep it out of any project right from the start. Once you understand some of the underlying reasons that it occurs, you can set up your marking orders so as to avoid procrastination in your employees as well as in yourself. Here’s how.

Establish clear-cut goals and priorities immediately.It’s amazing what different people may consider to be clear-cut goals. Rather than ask yourself what are the most important factors in this project, you should ask yourself what is the most important factor. Don’t give yourself three separate things to vacillate over. Focus!

Once you’ve figured out the most important part of the project, ask yourself what the next most important part is, and so on. By doing this, you will end up with a linear progression of priorities that is easy to follow. Once you have this, you can set mini-deadlines for each and start working on them. Let’s say the highest-priority component has a 2-week deadline. You might give the second-priority activity a 1 1/2 week  deadline, and a lesser component a one-day deadline. Work out the whole schedule in such a way that by meeting your various mini-deadlines you’ll have enough time to give the most important factors the attention they need without missing your final deadline.

Come up with goals jointly. Whether it’s between you and your employees or you and your boss, make sure a consensus is reached concerning the work schedule on the project. This will help avoid any feeling of being ruled over, which can lead to procrastination. Strive to let everyone involved have a say in the matter, and then reach a compromise which everyone can live with. Call it the “Defense to Autonomy” Rule.

Spell out clearly the consequences of not meeting the deadline. Let your employees know how important the work is and what kind of trouble they could put the division in if they don’t finish the work on time. This makes the deadline all the more concrete to the kind of person who thinks there is always a little more time that can be squeezed out of any deadline. For personal motivation, you might imagine a worst-case scenario of what will happen if you don’t finish your work on time.

Rely on feedback, feedback, feedback. Get it and give it. Check in with your employees when they meet one of their mini-deadlines. Do it consistently and let them know how they are doing. Encouragement always helps, but so does a little timely criticism if things are getting bogged down. People tend to procrastinate alone and then try to hide it because they are ashamed. It can be a tremendous help to them if they have someone they can touch base with about their progress.

On a personal note, if you are they type who procrastinates, you may want to set up checkpoint meetings with your boss so that you dodnt’ find yourself working in a vacuum.

Remember that it doesn’t have to be perfect. Only saints are perfect, and most of them have long since left their desk jobs for more spiritually lucrative careers. Let your employees know that you understand their abilities and limitations, and that you do not expect them to win the Nobel Prize. While some things do need to be perfect (accounting sheets and neurosurgery, for example), if most projects are 80 percent wonderful and 20 percent okay, you’re ahead of the game. Remember that something is called average because that is about as well as the majority of people can do it.

To keep from intimidating yourself into procrastination because you aren’t perfect, think about this. Studies have shown that most Olympic athletes are, on the whole, very accepting of themselves when they have a bad day. People perform better if they don’t expect perfection. Granted, some athletes are perfectionists. But by the time the starting gun goes off, they’ve worked themselves into such a frenzy that there’s a 50-50 chance they’ll either break a record or break a leg. Instead, strive for relaxed confidence with room to forgive yourself the occasional error.

Finally, here is the “in case of procrastination, break glass and pull lever” tip. This is for when nothing else works. No feedback, reward, or punishment has succeeded in getting you started on this project. Ask yourself what you can get done in the next 15 minutes and then do it. Anyone can stand to do just about anything for 15 minutes. And for the surprising short amount of time it is, you can get something done. You don’t have to have all the bases covered to take one step.

So get moving!

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How to be a Phoenix

  • Posted on January 18, 2011 at 10:20 pm
Phoenix Press

Do you want to be a Phoenix?

Don’t you want to be the best that you can be? In life, work, and play? Well, that is what is called a phoenix. If you are a phoenix, you strive to be better all the time. Not for everyone else’s purpose but for yours!

Some ways that you can start being a phoenix today are:

  1. Renew yourself! – Create a future that makes a difference and leaves a legacy. Remember, it is easier to create tomorrow than it is to change today. Self-renewal is job number one. Create a tomorrow that makes a difference and leaves a legacy of which you can be proud.
  2. Plug into your connections – What a web of business and personal connections we weave. All business connections and personal connections are another form of business. Recognize and honor your connections.
  3. Create success for all of your connections.
  4. Learn more in order to contribute more to others’ success.
  5. Take ownership of your life and make it all it can be!

We each have a road that we must travel, but we have the choice as to what we might find on that road. When we make a difference in someones life, it makes a bigger difference in ours.

Etiquette Tips (Life & Business)

  • Posted on January 8, 2011 at 9:55 pm

I ran across these etiquette tips and they are really beneficial for your life as well as for business.

  1. Know when to use someones first name. The general rule is that you always defer to authority by using an honorific (Mr., Ms., Dr.) until you are given permission to use a first name.
  2. Don’t give a boss a gift. Unless you have a personal relationship with your boss, don’t give him or her a gift for holidays or birthdays.
  3. Don’t get drunk at business-related social functions. Don’t think this one needs any explanation.
  4. Know how to use small talk to fill an awkward moment. Break the ice by talking about where you are – physically. Or something that borders on business talk – something that reflects that you’re up on your organization’s happenings.
  5. To avoid sexual harassment, err on the side of caution. Comments about how nice a hair cut is or how attractive a particular outfit looks on them denigrates your business relationship. Save such comments for personal friends.
  6. Don’t correct your boss in public. You can do it in private.
  7. Know what to talk about with the boss’s spouse. Ideally, you will know in advance where his or her interests lie.
  8. Don’t draw attention to your tardiness (and other minor blunders). Simply say, “Excuse me,” or “Pardon my tardiness.”
  9. Recognize that chivalry (not courtesy) is dead. Whoever gets to the door first does the opening – unless either party is encumbered.
  10. Rise and shake hands when business introductions are made.

Many times people don’t think about what is just common etiquette. It is really simple if you apply some common sense, right?

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