You are currently browsing the archives for October 2010.
Displaying 1 - 10 of 24 entries.

It Couldn’t Be Done

  • Posted on October 30, 2010 at 4:46 pm

By: Edgar A Guest

Somebody said that it couldn’t be done,
But he with a chuckle replied.

That “maybe it couldn’t,” but he would be one
Who wouldn’t say so till he tried.

So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin
On his face. If he worried, he hid it.

He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn’t be done, and he did it.

Somebody scoffed, “Oh, you’ll never do that;
At least no one ever has done it.”

But he took off his coat and he took off his hat,
And the first thing we knew, he’d begun it.

With a lift of his chin and a bit of a grin,
Without any doubting or quiddit.

He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn’t be done, and he did it.

There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done,
There are thousands to prophesy failure;

There are thousands to point out to you, one by one,
The dangers that wait to assail you.

But buckle in with a bit of a grin,
Just take off your coat and go to it;

Just start to sing as you tackle the thing
That “cannot be done” and you’ll do it.

Enhanced by Zemanta

What are Action Goals?

  • Posted on October 29, 2010 at 9:22 pm

Action goals are what really will get you where you want to be in business and in your personal life.

A
C
T
I
O
N

Are Measurable
If a goal is not measurable, then it is probably just a wish or a hope.

Compatible with Your Mission
If a goal is not compatible with your company, department, or life mission, then it will probably result in low payoff because it is likely an unimportant goal.

Time-Specific
Each of your goals should have a start time and a finish date. Without both, you may lack the commitment to follow through.

In Writing
If you put your goal in writing, it will probably be more clear, and you can communicate it and share it with others. Writing out your goals make them visual. A written goal is more likely to have been thought out and, therefore, there is a greater chance you will accomplish it.

Ownership and Accountability
Goals must be owned by those who set them and by others vested with the responsibility for carrying them out. In other words, everyone involved must agree that the goals are important and useful. Those involved are more likely to take ownership if they participate in setting the goals.

Negotiated
If you and others who are involved (your supervisor or employees or family) reach agreement about what the goals should be and how they should be accomplished, then there is likely to be commitment to follow through. If there is disagreement, disharmony, and unresolved conflict about the goals, people will “do their own thing” and rationalize that it is the “right thing to do.” They will likely receive little payoff.

Moral: Set a personal goal to become what you want to be. Don’t leave your job and your personal life to chance.

Enhanced by Zemanta

A Mystery of Fate by Voltaire

  • Posted on October 28, 2010 at 9:53 pm
The Passage of Time

Time

 

What, of all things in the world, is the longest and the shortest, the swiftest and the lowest, the most divisible and the most extended, the most neglected and the most regretted without which nothing can be done, which devours all that is little, and enlivens all that is great? 

Time. 

Nothing is longer, since it is the measure of eternity.
Nothing is shorter, since it is insufficient for the accomplishment of your projects.
Nothing is more slow to him that expects, nothing more rapid to him that enjoys.
In greatness it extends to infinity, in smallness it is infinitely divisible.
All men neglect it; all regret the loss of it; nothing can be done without it.
It consigns to oblivion whatever is unworthy of being transmitted to posterity, and it immortalizes such actions as are truly great.
Time is man’s most precious asset. 

Who controls your destiny?

  • Posted on October 27, 2010 at 8:09 pm
LONG BEACH, CA - OCTOBER 25: Tony Robbins spea...

Tony Robbins

Sometimes we really get caught up in life’s drama and everything that is going on around us. Sometimes our thoughts are that this one thing is going to either make us or break us. Well honestly, I am responsible for my destiny, myself. Nobody else. I am responsible for what choices I make and yes, sometimes I don’t make the right choices, but each choice that I make makes me grow that much stronger.

Tony Robbins says that there are three decisions you can make that control your destiny:
1.  Your decisions about what to focus on.
2.  Your decisions about what things mean to you.
3.  Your decisions about what to do to create the results you desire.

Every day that passes by I decide when I get out of the bed, what kind of day I am going to have. I decide what I am going to do that day at work. I decide what I think is important to me. I have control over my thoughts and that is probably the only true thing that I do have control over. So why not make it something positive. They say when you think positive thoughts, you draw positive things to you and when you think negative thoughts, you draw negative things to you. Well – I THINK I don’t want negative things. I want to have good days and see the things out there that are beautiful and when I see something that isn’t so beautiful, why can’t I not find something beautiful about it? I know that if I use my positive attitude and positive thoughts I can control my destiny and that is exactly what I plan on doing!

Enhanced by Zemanta

Are You Walking The Talk?

  • Posted on October 25, 2010 at 9:26 pm

Words to live by are just words,
unless you live by them.
You have to walk the talk.

Top 10 Walk The Talk Characteristics

  1. High Value Awareness. Values are regularly communicated and discussed to ensure awareness and understanding throughout the organization.
  2. High Value Accountability. People are evaluated on value-driven practices as well as results – with zero tolerance for conscious value violations.
  3. Leadership by Example. Leaders earn the right to expect others to do things by doing those things themselves.
  4. Value Drive Decision Making. Decisions are checked to ensure they are in accord with organizational values before they are implemented.
  5. In Sync Policies and Procedures.Rules and policies are checked to ensure they reflect and support organizational values before they are issued.
  6. Value Driven Education. Training and other developmental activities teach people how to apply and practice values rather than merely recite them.
  7. Attention to Perceptions. Climate surveys and other perception-collecting activities are important components of organizational assessment and change strategies.
  8. Steady, Incremental Change. Emphasis is placed on many small improvements rather than a few big ones – quick-fix fads and “programs of the year” are discouraged and avoided.
  9. Value Based Selection. The Degree to which people subscribe to and practice organizational values is a key criterion in hiring and promotional decisions.
  10. Encouraged Initiative. People are rewarded for “Walking The Talk” rather than pointing fingers or waiting for others to take the first step.

Are you walking the talk? Has it been successful for your organization? Do you think it is imperative that an organization “Walks The Talk?”

Enhanced by Zemanta

How Do You Manage a Meeting?

  • Posted on October 24, 2010 at 7:09 pm

As a manager, there are specific behaviors that you should demonstrate in meetings.

  1. Prepare a meeting agenda.  A large part of the chairperson’s contribution occurs before the meeting begins. You will need to have a clear understanding of what is to be done at the meeting and what, if any, decisions are to be made. You’ll have to determine who should attend and the right number of attendees to optimize the group’s effectiveness. You’ll also need to drop up the planning document that will guide the meeting – the agenda.
  2. Distribute the agenda in advance. If you want specific people to attend your meeting, and particularly if participants need to do some homework beforehand, get your agenda out well in advance of the meeting.
  3. Consult with participants before the meeting. An unprepared participant can’t contribute to his or her full potential. It is your responsibility to ensure that members are prepared. What data will they need ahead of time? Do they have those data? If not, what can you do to help them get it?
  4. Get participants to go over the agenda. The first thing you should do at the meeting is to get participants to review the agenda. Do modifications need to be made? If so, make them. Clarify the issues that you plan to discuss. After this review, get participants to approve the final agenda.
  5. Establish specific time parameters.Meetings should begin on time and have a specific time for completion. It is your responsibility to specify these time parameters and to hold to them.
  6. Maintain focused discussion.It is the chairperson’s responsibility to give direction to the discussion; to keep it focused on the issues; and to minimize interruptions, disruptions, and irrelevant comments. If participants begin to stray from the issue under consideration, the chairperson should intercede quickly to redirect the discussion. Similarly, one or a few members cannot be allowed to monopolize the discussion or to dominate others. Appropriate preventive action ranges from a subtle stare, a raised eyebrow, or other nonverbal communication, on up to an authoritative command such as ruling someone “out of order” or withdrawing someone’s right to continue speaking.
  7. Encourage and support participation by all members.Participants were not selected randomly. Each is there for a purpose. To maximize the effectiveness of problem-oriented meetings, each participant must be encouraged to contribute. Quiet or reserved personalities must be drawn out so their ideas can be heard.
  8. Maintain an appropriate level of control.The style of leadership can range from authoritative domination to laissez-faire. The effective leader pushes when necessary and is passive when need be.
  9. Encourage the clash of ideas.You need to encourage different points of view, critical thinking, and constructive disagreement. Your goals should be to stimulate participants’ creativity and to counter the group members’ desire to reach an early consensus.
  10. Discourage the clash of personalities. An effective meeting is characterized by the critical assessment of ideas, not attacks on people. When running a meeting, you must quickly intercede to stop personal attacks or other forms of verbal insult.
  11. Exhibit effective listening skills.If you group meeting is to achieve its objectives, you need to demonstrate the listening skills. Effective listening reduces misunderstandings, improves the focus of discussion, and encourages the critical assessment of ideas. Even if other group members don’t exhibit good listening skills, if you do, you can keep the discussion focused on the issues and facilitate critical thinking.
  12. Bring proper closure. You should close a meeting by summarizing the group’s accomplishments; clarifying what actions, if any, need to follow the meeting; and allocating follow-up assignments. If any decisions have to be made, who will be responsible for communicating and implementing them?
Enhanced by Zemanta

Do You Have a Healthy Team?

  • Posted on October 22, 2010 at 10:45 pm

Sometimes we think we really do have a healthy team when there are things that could make it much healthier. Take a few minutes and take this short quiz on the signs of an emotionally healthy team.

Are there areas that you need to work on? What about your coworkers? How can everyone come together to make a well-balanced emotionally healthy team?

What is the Power of a Referral?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 10:59 pm

With all of the different types of marketing out there, so what is really the best? Now that is really a difficult question! There are so many different types, prices, strategies, methods…where do you even begin?

Well, I think the first step is that if you are doing what you enjoy doing, you have to show the confidence that you feel in what you do! It is extremely important that your clients see how successful that you feel you are! When you do services for a client and they can feel your success in your voice, see it in your work, they are happy with the fact that they hired you and you are performing for them. That is what makes them a success!

When they are happy with you, they are going to refer you to their friends, their families, their acquaintances. It is a win-win situation for them. They are growing their business and helping you to grow yours. The power of a referral is absolutely amazing and we should all harness this power!

So…How Do You Promote Your Website?

  • Posted on October 19, 2010 at 11:00 pm

Anyway possible….

Some good practices are:

  1. Blog about new content
  2. Use offline promotion (business cards, flyers, presentations, etc.)
  3. Use social media sites
  4. Add your business to Google’s Local Business Guide
  5. Reach out to those in your site’s related community

There is so many different avenues to take, you just have to jump in. Some of the best advice I can give is to constantly add new content. It helps with the search engines and it keeps the clients interested.

    Common Myths

    • Posted on October 18, 2010 at 11:22 pm

    Myth: As you grow, your personality changes.

    • Truth: As you grow, you become more of who you already are. Your values, your skills, your self-awareness, and some of your behaviors may change, but the most dominant aspects of your personality will remain the same.

    Myth: You will grow the most in your areas of greatest weakness.

    • Truth:You will grow most in your areas of greatest strength. You will be the most inquisitive, most resilient, most creative, and most pen to learning in your areas of strength.

    Myth: A good team member does whatever it takes to help the team.

    • Truth: A good team member deliberately volunteers his strengths to the team most of the time. A great team member is well rounded, precisely because each good team member is not.

    What myths are you living by? Maybe we need to look at how we are living each day and if we are living by myths or by truths.